Tuesday, September 16, 2008

An Amazing Man

A crisp morning walk with a friend is the way to start out any morning. James finishes his brisk walk and heads back, opening the door for his lady friend as she strolls into the lobby of the assisted living center.

So much has changed over the last several months, but he takes everything in stride knowing that he is in a safe place and is watched over by not only heavenly angels but earthly angels as well. The open door environment along with the few residents gives this place he is living a warm and friendly feel and that is what he wants more than mere activity.

Some days are good for him and some days are not but that doesn't seem to matter because he keeps his eyes focused on people, from counseling pre-marital couples to helping those around him whom he sometimes refers to as "inmates".

This day seems very special for some reason. His pale twinkly blue eyes along with his well combed white hair give him a stately appearance. Even though he uses a walker, his back is straight as he speeds down the hall to the lobby to wait for a ride to church.

James' attitude is always uplifting and the staff and the "inmates" enjoy his cheery disposition.

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Such is the life of my Dad. Even though at 91 his vision is blurred and his hearing is boosted by hearing aides, he remains a very positive influence in all of our lives. He is able, literally, to laugh at any situation and crys when he thanks you for taking him to his appointments. He lives with the attitude that as long as he has breath, he has purpose. He is an amazing man!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Jim moved from this life to his eternal home in heaven in September of 2013. He was an amazing man whose wisdom has been passed along to many whom he counseled as well as to his children and family who dearly loved him.